Dr Claire Davies

Is This You?

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You've always been the capable one. Now you lie awake at 3am wondering if this is all there is.

You say yes to every request. Stay silent in meetings despite having valuable ideas. Watch colleagues get opportunities you want deep down for yourself.

Here's what's happening to many women doctors: inner critics are getting in the way of your progress.

The good news? Once you learn to recognise these voices, you can rebel against them and succeed on your own terms.

When I started coaching women doctors, I kept hearing the same shapes of sentence.

“I should speak up, but…” “I’m not very good at boundaries,” said with a laugh, like it’s just a known fact about themselves. “I’ll decide once I’m ready.”

Ready never quite arrives. Or it arrives looking like another course, another qualification — just to be sure.

You know what you’d tell a friend to do. You just can’t seem to do it yourself.

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The workload is brutal and burnout is at a record high.

I can’t fix the NHS. But I can help you find your way back to the part of you that already knows — the part that’s been drowned out by everything the job asks of you.

The part that knows when to set a boundary, when to speak up, and what you actually want. It hasn’t gone. It’s just been quiet for a long time.

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YOU CAN FEEL SOMETHING IS OFF: BUT WHAT IS IT?

YOU THINK IT THROUGH FROM EVERY ANGLE. YET YOU STILL FEEL STUCK.

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Is this overthinking? Or is your inner critic running your medical career?

As a woman doctor, you've developed powerful internal voices to help you succeed — the Perfectionist, the Rescuer, the Over-functioner. They got you through medical training and into your career.

Often, you won't spot them as inner critics at all. They show up as overthinking. As procrastination. As struggling to see the way ahead, let alone commit to it. Or giving yourself permission to slow down.

But when these inner critics work overtime, you end up feeling stuck and circling the same decisions — even though you have the skills and knowledge to succeed.

This free assessment will help you:

Identify which inner critic is most active in your professional life
Understand how these patterns developed (and why they no longer serve you)
Get one practical tool to start responding differently this week

When you recognize these patterns, you create space for what you actually want: the confidence to use your voice, pursue opportunities that matter to you, and build a career that gives you back some of whawt it takes

Download the assessment today and start making new choices on how you show up.

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The usual support channels

Have you looked at these options and found they miss the point?

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Just be more confident

– doesn’t work –

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Practitioner Health

– you don’t need clinical help –

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Workplace 'Wellness' Initiatives

– don’t have time to attend –

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Learn to set boundaries

– feels unrealistic or too hard –

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Just commit to something

– your inner critic won’t let you –

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'Resilience'

– you are already resilient enough –

Help is available

It is hard to see solutions from a place of stress-related overthinking.

One voice tells you that saying no makes you selfish.

Another whispers you’re not qualified for better opportunities.

Asking for help feels like admitting defeat.

The guilt when you try anything different is overwhelming.

Once you learn to recognize these different voices, you can finally act from a place of your own inner wisdom.

You are not alone.

And you are not broken.

Here are some ways to get started

Breathe. You can do this.

Try these

Some self-help strategies

Strategy 1

Notice which voice is speaking when making a decision this week.

Is this your authentic voice or your inner critic? Your authentic voice feels grounded and clear, even if the decision is difficult.

Strategy 2

Guilt is a very common challenge. Asking yourself what expectations you are putting on yourself. Is this from your conscience or inner critic?

What would you say to your friend if they were in your shoes?

Strategy 3

Notice when your inner critic is speaking. What does it say?

Ask it to step out of the room. What comes up for you then?

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My approach

Self-help only goes so far when you can’t tell whether a decision is really yours, or just the loudest thing in your head.

Working together, we’ll get underneath the patterns — the overthinking, the waiting to be ready, the guilt that’s out of proportion – and find what’s actually true for you underneath them. This isn’t advice, or another strategy to try. It’s coaching that starts with what’s actually going on for you.

We’ll get you back to trusting your own judgement, making the decision, and building a career and life that’s actually yours.

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Ready to stop letting your inner critic run your career? A 30-minute conversation with me is complimentary.

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Which Inner Critic Is Running Your Medical Career?

As a woman doctor, you've developed powerful internal voices to help you succeed—the Perfectionist, the Rescuer, the People-Pleaser. They helped you through medical training and into your career.

But when these inner critics work overtime, you end up overworking, doubting yourself, and playing small—even though you have the skills and knowledge to be an excellent doctor.

If you're tired of these patterns defining your career, you're not alone.